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The blog is a reflection of multi-disciplinary scholarship, academic degrees, and all kinds of letters after my name to make me feel big.Psychoeducational and happy, I'll lecture at most sunny places, topic your choice.
References to people, with the exception of myself, and events except those about me, and even some of those, are entirely fictional. But I remember first hearing about it many years ago in graduate school and getting it, but not getting it, and what made it worse was that the instructor, Joy Johnson (where are you, Joy?But she kept coming back to one particular incident in which he avoided her question.She said: (a) It troubles me that he won't answer the question.(That would be process.) and (b) I really want the answer to the question. That's what Joy means when she says that process is more important than content.) made a serious pitch, told us that if we didn't get it, basically, we would be only be so-so at this job. A patient ended up clarifying it for me, unintentionally, of course.Joy taught us that process is what's happening, the action, and that content is the story.
There's a difference between seeing something, and hearing about it.
The guy selling you a car is going to be friendly, and he'll tell you all about the features and wonders of the vehicle, but if he sells it to you, it is likely because of the way he worked you, not because it's such an awesome car.
But you want to know what the patient said, so many years ago.
Her boyfriend would shut down when she asked him things, asked for any kind of explanation for his behavior.
He behaved like he didn't understand, but she insisted that he did, that he just didn't want to answer, a passive aggressive defense. She didn't realize that he felt cornered, on the defensive, which made him anxious, and his anxiety got to the point where he really didn't know what to say, indeed, he forgot what she had even asked.
They broke up, but she wanted him back, and he wanted her back, so they started it up again after a few months apart.