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It’s frustrating to feel constantly challenged on something that shouldn’t matter to anyone but me.
According to these Asian Males, I should just get over my daddy issues and stop being self-racist. For one, I’m something of a daddy’s girl, even though I don’t rely on him like a typical daddy’s girl would. I’m the white girl that dates only Asian guys with absolutely no apology…and, depending on who you are, I know what you’re thinking when I say that. How can you know what you like if you’ve never dated different races?Non-Asian guys usually take a step back, take a good look at me, and, with the little wheels in their heads slowly chugging away, they find the only feasible sentence worth saying is, simply: To which I cheerfully reply, “Nope. I just hate ugly faces.” Watching them walk away with those faces contorted with puzzlement is so amusing, but that’s only if they leave at that moment. “Well…what do Asian guys have that make them so special? You’re too young to say what you do and don’t like…” etc.They’re either completely confused and/or jealous as to why an attractive white woman like myself (if I might be conceited enough to say) likes only Asian men.Believe it or not, I have standards other than merely being Asian.
Looking back on the things I’ve liked about guys I’ve dated, I’ve come to a few conclusions about my type.
I also like him to NOT try be more Asian or American than he actually is.
I mean, he’s not wrapped around my finger and I don’t have my every whim catered to by him, but I know he would do whatever he could for me. That’s someone that hates their own race and might possibly swap out for another one, right?
We’ve had our differences, like any parent and child will, but I love him and he loves me. Actually, I’ve had no problems being White…quite the contrary, admittedly. They’ve received a false impression of me that won’t be altered, so it’s best just to move on.
I understand my White privilege very well and, even though I see how unfair it is, I can’t say I don’t enjoy it. So…the second, and most common, reaction is False Hope.
Coincidentally, I know a lot of Asian guys also like non-Asian girls – specifically, White girls. Once this type of Asian guy hears that this white girl only dates Asian men, he’s all over me. I call it false hope because, unfortunately for him, that’s not all it takes.